anniversary

I like anniversaries for the thought of remembering and reflecting, all that's happened between two points in time. Which is a lot, and considering how many days go by without significance--to feel that one year with someone has given you this much to feel and consider and grow, is nice. We went through a long phase of uncertainty, intermittent phases of awkwardness, a phase of closeness through distance, a phase of travel, and are in something good at the moment. I've always thought it was valuable and important to experience different stages, as we're different in different contexts. Through these with him, we've tried to be honest and open, and more than ease or sap, this is what I've loved best.